To your self-handicaps
You are out to get yourself. We handicap ourselves all the time. Sometimes when things are good, or when they are bad, we try to stop ourselves to protect us from “whats next.”
Self-destructive talk happens all the time. Sometimes, it feels good to avoid.
I’d ask you to listen to it.
Sometimes, in that destructive talk lies the secret of why we handicap ourselves.
Knowledge is half the batter.