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If you ship consistently, you have more time.

Sounds like a paradox, doesn’t it?

“What do you mean, I have more time? I barely have any time now, with the (fill in your job, family, or bills here)!”

Life is always there, no matter what we do. What I am talking about here, though, is that when a creative team or person has a consistent shipping schedule, they often have more time than they think. What bothers me, is when we as creatives decide to squander it by thinking short-term.

The benefit of shipping consistently is that you build trust. Once you’ve gained a certain amount of trust, it is worth your time to expend some of it by creating boundaries. No becomes a more important word the more work you do.

When you create that time, it is critical you get uncomfortable. That clarifying conversation? Have it. That weird experiment that might not work? Do it. The point is that in building boundaries, you give yourself the space to do the things that “go first.” Those are often the “soft” things that evaporate under pressure.

As Tom Peters says – “Soft is hard. Hard is soft”The trick is, understanding your boundaries and realizing you can say no. Everyone thinks that thier request is a fire. It is your job as your self-advocate to determine what is and what isn’t and move forward.

Give yourself time. You’ve got more than you think, and it isn’t worth squandering. 

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When It Rains, It Pours…

“Flooding” is bad for your health and sanity.

In the book “Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well”the authors describe “flooding” as the psychological event that multiplies the impact of a negative feeling. For example, “flooding” is when you find that the printer isn’t working and somehow that feeling becomes everyone here at the office hates me.

Yes, I’ve seen that example happen. It also may have been me.

When I notice the oncoming “flood” happening there are three things that help me get out of it.

  • Breathe – watch your breath, let things settle. Exercise is good here too.
  • Get context – Write out everything that is happening to you and read it back. The printer broke, not you.
  • Get thankful – The fact that you zipped up your pants before you left the house? That’s a win.

Floods are going to happen based on your disposition. I know a lot of creatives are on the “open” side of that scale, meaning we tend to “flood” more often. It’s OK when it happens, it’s human, but the key is to not stay there. 

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