Delegating requires you to manage your soft skills.
You rely on people, so you want them at their best.
Their best requires you to listen.
Why?
Think about the last time you felt no one listened to you. How many times did you recycle that conversation in your head? If it was important to you, how much of a grudge did you hold afterwards?
Thoughts like those take mental overhead which drives away focus from work.
When we lead, it’s far easier to tell people how to “think.” No matter how much authority you have over someone, if they don’t feel listened to, they can’t give 100%. It succeeds for a little while, and then the pendulum swings the other way.
It’s an impossible ask. They aren’t robots.
Neither are you.
So, listen up. Every minute you hear people out, consider it an investment into your people’s best work.
And hey, you might learn something, too.


