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My Bookshelf System – a Forcing Function to Help Me Prioritize

My bookshelf creates priorities

I love to read.

In the few years, I’ve come into contact with close to 200 books.

No, that doesn’t mean read (I am not a robot). It means that I need bookshelves :-).

Books are physical objects. They take up space. If you aren’t careful, they can take over your residence.

That jibes against my minimalist tendencies.

So I’ve developed a system to keep my books relevant and help me prioritize:

  • One bookshelf holds new books(50) – I can’t buy new books unless they fit here. This amount stops me from going too far ahead and creating a system of despair (“There is no way I can read allllllllllllll these books”)
  • One bookshelf holds books I can keep(50) – I can’t hang on to books unless they are relevant and I reference them often. This shelf is full. Now, I have to give something away if it doesn’t fit.(“I have too many books.“)

This simple system forces me to prioritize and is an exercise to build the skill of prioritization.

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Go With the Flow

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Flow is amazing.

What is flow? Flow is when you concentrate on a particular task so much that everything else drops out of focus.  It’s “in the zone.”

Ever had one of those days where you worked on something at 9 and the next time you looked up it was 4:30?

That’s flow.

As a result of flow, I’ve written things in a day that otherwise would take a week.

It’s that powerful and as a tool, it can 10x your workflow.

It’s beautiful and finicky. Be careful.

Flow disappears with any interruption.

This fickleness is worth thinking about before “pinging.”Getting a person’s attention is a cost.

It’s worth the time to study this subject – and I recommend the book Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi.

TED Talk:

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The Discipline of Meditation

It isn’t as hard as we make it.

I think one of the largest barriers to entry to meditation is the visualization people have for it.

They think of the monk in front of the river, crossing his legs, chanting some Buddhist scripture. He is devout. His concentration is keen. Nothing effects him.

That level of discipline scares people, especially me.

But what I’ve come to learn is that isn’t the only form of meditation at all.

Mediation is a nice walk in the park, sitting in a room, or even working out. Meditation comes in a lot of forms.

All it requires is enough mindfulness to concentrate on your breathing.

Once you do that, you’ll notice thoughts.

Once you begin to notice, don’t act, just watch.

Breathe. Let Go. Watch those thoughts go away, more will come. Just Breathe. Let Go.

Read that sentence slowly, and you could accidentally start meditating.

No river, nature, or chant required.

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Coffee Shops

I love the flow of coffee shops.

On the surface:

  • Good coffee
  • Decent WiFi
  • Snacks a step away

But the biggest draws only become noticeable after you send some serious time in them.

  • Easy, open place to hold an “office hours” environment.
  • Enough ambient noise to let your mind get into flow.
  • Forced constraints keeps focus.

Much better than just the coffee.

 

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Email Made Easy 3 For You & 3 For Me

In the world of communication, e-mail is king. As much as people complain about email, as a tool to communicate an idea, its effectiveness unmatched. You can, free, send a message to someone for them to get it instantly. Email makes it easy to send over a note of thanks, a quick question, or a meeting invitation, when before it was widely used, would take an entire support system to get to people.

There are no limits to what it can contain, and except in very rare instances, the message can reach anyone. Steve Jobs used to personally check his email. Another author I respect greatly, Seth Godin, does as well. In 2015, you don’t ever have to go too far to get a message to someone.

With that said, I hate bad email. Bad email is the reason Inbox Zero is a thing, “Email For Dummies” exists, and why you get a fresh heart palpitation every time your phone goes ding (which is a terrible thing, turn those notifications off!). The problem 99% of us have with email comes down to two things: One, we don’t know how to manage our own inboxes and two, we don’t know how to write a good email.

Here are 3 tips for both email management and writing email that will make your life easier.

Email Management

  1. Use Rules, Use Them Relentlessly – If you use Outlook they are rules, Gmail they are  filters. If you look at any of your email programs they have a tool to do your email sorting for you. I love the idea of Sturgeons Law, meaning that 90% of what you get is crap, when it comes to what comes into your inbox. The plan is to make sure that only the actionable hits your inbox, and everything else has its own home, one you can go to when you need it.
    • Implementation Strategy: Pay attention to your email over the last week. If there is anything that a company sent as a “FYI”, something that you don’t ever want to respond to (newsletters), or reference items (travel information) give them their own folders .
  2. Simplify and Systemize – As your actionable email goes up, your need to keep things simple will as well. By using a systematic approach, every improvement builds your efficiency.
    • Implementation Strategy: Pay attention to any responses you send often. Make them email signatures(Outlook) or create a system shortcut (everything else) with any of the programs (Phrase Express) that allows the user to turn phrases into entire paragraphs. This makes emails that take minutes turn into seconds – and makes you look like a hero.
  3. For The Love of God Distance – Email can turn into ping-pong. Make sure you create distance when you email by turning off your notifications and responding at specific times. I have never met someone who responded to an email 6 hours later lose a job.
    • Implementation Strategy: Turn off all notifications and set a bright rule to check email at certain times. I prefer in the middle of the day and before I go to bed(flexible).

Writing Good Email

  1. Brevity is king 3 Sentences – not all emails can fit into this concept, but most can.
    • Implementation Strategy: Think about your email and cut as much out as possible.
  2. Do Not Write Emotions –  Recognize people cannot read your emotion through an email. Depending on what is happening in the life of the recipient, an email looking to bring up their self-esteem may turn into a threatening one. Learn how to focus on the message and save emotion for when you get face to face.
    • Implementation Strategy: Keep email simple and remove anything that could get misconstrued. Focus on the incident and leave everything else out of it.
  3. Keep It In Context – People miss context often. This sounds like I am contradicting myself with the first point, but I have recognized at my best, the emails that have lasting impact do so with labeling context and keeping things short and sweet. It is easier to get to the action.
    • Implementation Strategy: Before you even start the email – ask yourself what you want and write it in a text file. Look at it, and use it as a reference. I.E If I wanted a meeting with John Doe, I would add Meeting with John Doe, time and place, in the text file, and make sure that I had both when I write the email and before I send the email.

We are capable. Email isn’t a dragon that needs slaying, it creates great value to people who use it effectively. Everyone can use a great lesson in this skill and something we all can work on. Like all things email continues to evolve, and if we don’t grow, we can end up losing out on the wonderful benefits of email. We are at our best when we communicate effectively, and as I said, in the world of communication, email is king. Use it responsibly, and the world is your castle.

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Getting Good Is Hard

Showing up is hard. Being honest is hard. Self Discipline is hard. Understanding the world is unfair is hard. Waking up on time is hard. Reading every day is hard. Writing everyday is hard. Keeping a schedule is hard. Turning off the TV is hard. Sending out thank you notes are hard. Writing a calendar is hard. Taking meetings are hard. Doing your best when no one is looking is hard. Initiating conversation is hard. Thinking objectively is hard. Not eating sweets is hard. Being vulnerable is hard. Not boasting is hard. Doing homework is hard. Consistent meditation is hard. Listening to your own work is hard. Admitting ignorance is hard. Not letting others make you angry is hard. Picking up the phone is hard. Asking for feedback is hard. Doing laundry is hard. Boundaries are hard. Not joining in on negativity is hard. Failure is hard. Freedom is hard.

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Its Flow

I am spending my time trying to understand flow.

The term is powerful, falling into it is powerful, and staying in it is powerful.

If I can master the understanding, I can position myself for more success

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Flow. Fun.

Figure out flow.

Pretty important discovery.

Work becomes fun.

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