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The Lesson, Not The Experience.

Well, That Was Bad

I bungled a presentation in front of the senior leadership that I sweated over and ultimately got wrong. It affected my work over the next week and threw me into a depression.

Lesson: Always know the game rules before playing.

True story. I tried to pitch something that was a slam dunk and realized I wasn’t prepared for the moment. That initiative took two more years and I failed to show my potential.

When we learn lessons, they often come with some experience. Sometimes it’s awful, but you get to take the lesson with you.

Don’t make the mistake of taking the experience with you.

If you aren’t careful, you risk becoming the experience instead of becoming yourself.

Your self is dynamic, resilient, antifragile.

Your experience is static, spiritless, fragile. 

This is a major difference between being a leader and being bitter. The leader just takes the lesson.

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Thousand Dollar Mistake

I made a thousand dollar mistake last week.

I left my passport at home – using my passport card to travel. This was a huge mistake.

None of the fail safes on anyone else end worked. I wasn’t stopped at the airport, by the TSA, by anyone, and I was let through only to be sent back home by the customs agents in the Dominican Republic for not having the card.

This invalidated my airplane ticket – and I was back in the states, in my room, a little over 12 hours after I left for my flight.

With that said, after rectifying the mistake – repurchasing the plane tickets and getting back there, I had one of the best vacations in my life.

Money is money – experience is everything.

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