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Email Made Easy 3 For You & 3 For Me

In the world of communication, e-mail is king. As much as people complain about email, as a tool to communicate an idea, its effectiveness unmatched. You can, free, send a message to someone for them to get it instantly. Email makes it easy to send over a note of thanks, a quick question, or a meeting invitation, when before it was widely used, would take an entire support system to get to people.

There are no limits to what it can contain, and except in very rare instances, the message can reach anyone. Steve Jobs used to personally check his email. Another author I respect greatly, Seth Godin, does as well. In 2015, you don’t ever have to go too far to get a message to someone.

With that said, I hate bad email. Bad email is the reason Inbox Zero is a thing, “Email For Dummies” exists, and why you get a fresh heart palpitation every time your phone goes ding (which is a terrible thing, turn those notifications off!). The problem 99% of us have with email comes down to two things: One, we don’t know how to manage our own inboxes and two, we don’t know how to write a good email.

Here are 3 tips for both email management and writing email that will make your life easier.

Email Management

  1. Use Rules, Use Them Relentlessly – If you use Outlook they are rules, Gmail they are  filters. If you look at any of your email programs they have a tool to do your email sorting for you. I love the idea of Sturgeons Law, meaning that 90% of what you get is crap, when it comes to what comes into your inbox. The plan is to make sure that only the actionable hits your inbox, and everything else has its own home, one you can go to when you need it.
    • Implementation Strategy: Pay attention to your email over the last week. If there is anything that a company sent as a “FYI”, something that you don’t ever want to respond to (newsletters), or reference items (travel information) give them their own folders .
  2. Simplify and Systemize – As your actionable email goes up, your need to keep things simple will as well. By using a systematic approach, every improvement builds your efficiency.
    • Implementation Strategy: Pay attention to any responses you send often. Make them email signatures(Outlook) or create a system shortcut (everything else) with any of the programs (Phrase Express) that allows the user to turn phrases into entire paragraphs. This makes emails that take minutes turn into seconds – and makes you look like a hero.
  3. For The Love of God Distance – Email can turn into ping-pong. Make sure you create distance when you email by turning off your notifications and responding at specific times. I have never met someone who responded to an email 6 hours later lose a job.
    • Implementation Strategy: Turn off all notifications and set a bright rule to check email at certain times. I prefer in the middle of the day and before I go to bed(flexible).

Writing Good Email

  1. Brevity is king 3 Sentences – not all emails can fit into this concept, but most can.
    • Implementation Strategy: Think about your email and cut as much out as possible.
  2. Do Not Write Emotions –  Recognize people cannot read your emotion through an email. Depending on what is happening in the life of the recipient, an email looking to bring up their self-esteem may turn into a threatening one. Learn how to focus on the message and save emotion for when you get face to face.
    • Implementation Strategy: Keep email simple and remove anything that could get misconstrued. Focus on the incident and leave everything else out of it.
  3. Keep It In Context – People miss context often. This sounds like I am contradicting myself with the first point, but I have recognized at my best, the emails that have lasting impact do so with labeling context and keeping things short and sweet. It is easier to get to the action.
    • Implementation Strategy: Before you even start the email – ask yourself what you want and write it in a text file. Look at it, and use it as a reference. I.E If I wanted a meeting with John Doe, I would add Meeting with John Doe, time and place, in the text file, and make sure that I had both when I write the email and before I send the email.

We are capable. Email isn’t a dragon that needs slaying, it creates great value to people who use it effectively. Everyone can use a great lesson in this skill and something we all can work on. Like all things email continues to evolve, and if we don’t grow, we can end up losing out on the wonderful benefits of email. We are at our best when we communicate effectively, and as I said, in the world of communication, email is king. Use it responsibly, and the world is your castle.

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The Case For the Monthly Cleanse.

Face it, we live junk filled lives.If you look at your desk, I wager you could find at least 3 things you haven’t used in the last month. Some things, such as your work from home key-fob, or your winter sweater are there for a season and a reason, but for most of the other things, they are simply clutter. I was a huge offender, my desk filled with papers, electronics, and anything else you may find on a desk.  For me, it felt comfortable to just keep my stuff there, but after reading “Everything That Remains” ( A strong candidate on the reread list) and subscribing to Zen Habits, I recognized how much brain space “junk” can take. That is why I recently started adding a monthly deep cleanse where I do my work.  The freedom of space will give you more room to work and forcing yourself to make decisions will improve your “stuff” awareness, training yourself to not waste time picking things you wont use again.

People who support messy desks often  lament about a desk clearing. One of the main concerns comes from the way they organize thoughts. “If I have everything I need on the desk, then I can grab it at any time.” If you were to talk to me 18 months ago, I was that same person.  Every time I would clean my desk, it would get cluttered again. I would have access to everything “I needed”. Although I had this theory, in practice, it never worked. I would be late for assignments, when someone asked me for something it would take time, and it wasn’t visually appealing.  When I made this a point to do monthly cleanses, to understand my surroundings, things changed. Socially, people happened to talk to me more and personally, the organization improved my efficiency.

Being aware of junk is the other half of the battle. I never gave it any thought. A new trinket would sit on my desk for a few days, and then just gather dust. When I started to clean my desk every month, I started to take inventory of I had on the desk. It became very clear, very quickly, that most of the things I had didn’t help me do my job, and it didn’t help me learn. In fact, by not being aware, I would lose anything that wasn’t in front of me very quickly. I lacked a system and had too much faith in my mental tracking faculties. Just by being aware, and keeping track, I improved my work and my energy by learning the priority and the use of things. It became a simple check – “Will this make my life better, and for how long?” If it didn’t answer that question, I started to give things away. Instantly, keeping the clutter out of my life became easier.

It is tough to throw things out, but by using monthly cleanses we keep our place clean and do so regularly. Making  and keeping your desk clean simply gives you more room to think. “Stuff” awareness allows you to really consider what you need. In my experience, keeping my desk clean was one of the key factors in clearing my mind to take on bigger and better projects.

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The Outro: Organization

In 2015, I had decided that I was going to make each month have a theme. I had gotten the idea, on a smaller scale, from Jack Dorsey. He is a full-time CEO for two companies, and to help organize his day, he gives each day a theme. These themes allow him to select tasks and batch them so.

Now, I don’t have two companies that I am the CEO for (Yet 😉 ) but I have recognized the strategic value of using themes. I am able to circle around some of the things that I am weak on in the topic, and make it a point to get better. A little SWOTing never hurt nobody.

My theme for April was organization. It is a little fitting that I am able to finally put this together on the month of Organization – 3 months after starting.It reminds me how important organization is.

Wins:

  • A whiteboard in every room – Small investment, big impact. Pair this with the Checklist Manifesto, put down your to-dos and watch your systems roar. 
  • Clean Room – I have gotten rid of 90% of the clutter in my room. A lot easier to clean BTW.
  • My Book List is Around! – I have the book list organized.  It is available on my Google Drive! Link here and at the top of the blog, comment at your leisure.
  • I have a calendar! –  It is both in physical and digital form, with different functions. A lot to improve on here, but I love that it is here.

Losses:

  • Email isn’t quite right – I want to add a few more scripts. I did make a solid signature. If it brought you here – HI!
  • Contact List is in disarray – Still need some updating here. I really want to improve my contact list.
  • My Web Presence is Still Sparse – Disorganized, there is some work happening here, but I didn’t get enough done.
  • File collection & backup – It is all about availability. I moved a lot to Google Drive but there are some things that are missing.

I am leaving April a little more organized. It is exciting to see the progress laid out in front of me from my meetings with my accountability partner (I will be opening up our process soon via the blog) and being able to see the wins and losses quickly.

Hopefully on the 31st, I will be able to show some gains from theme Networking.

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Closets

Last night I reorganized my closets. It had been a goal of mine. Usually I let things linger, but since I have noticed that systems can adapt, and iteration can make us better, I decided to take everything out of my closets and see what was necessary.

It certainly was interesting. I always think I have thrown everything out that I don’t use, but through this exercise, I always get clothes, old papers, and even weird things like a Zune that I had locked away. If we let stuff linger, it will linger. Getting into those closets got rid of a lot of crap in my life.

I woke up this morning and my room felt cleaner. I also felt better. I was able to get to things faster. I found myself getting out the house quicker. In short, I made progress in other things automatically simply by clearing out things I didn’t need.

Quarterly cleanups. I wonder what I will find in June.

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Organization & Routine

Organization has always been difficult for me. I don’t keep things neat at all. Throwing things around always felt normal, and I never really mind when it becomes time to find things. I just became better at retrieval, when I was in my house especially, at taking some time to find what I had thrown about recently.

This all felt normal until I decided to take the challenge of making my room clean. I was a classic example of the male bachelor, clothes thrown everywhere in the room, trash bandied about, and a messy bed. I would call in a maid every few months and get a brand new room, only to have it collapse in a week or so.

That changed when I made a routine at night to clean up the floor for at most of 5 minutes. I ordered a maid and made it a point to start the night after she left. Very little to do, it felt like I could carry out something with no effort. It was a little win, and it was nice to have a clean floor.

It has been three months, and I woke up this morning realizing it has been a long time since there has been even more than 5 pieces of clothing on the floor. The power of the habit has amazed. No more than 5 minutes a night, cleaning my floor. I wish I had known this when I was younger.

The habit has expanded to the trash being taken out and the dishes being washed, and they too, went from mounds of work to about 3 minutes a night of keeping my apartment clean. Small wins matter, and hopefully, this can translate into my creative life. Organization is key for me to free up mind space, and getting my external world in order should help me get my internal engine going.

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On Listening

One of the most difficult skills for me to master is listening.

We hear things all the time. Sounds come in one ear, and out the other. It is hard for me to listen though, because my brain gets unsettled. A lot of us want quick results, and our brain encourages this behavior. For me, my brain generally decides to skip ahead, scanning the words for an ! and tries to jump in from there. Sometimes when people talk, I hear a “COME ON” inside my head, as if using allegory isn’t enough.

Seems easy enough, telling my brain to slow down, but the difficult part is being vulnerable enough to pay attention to the people around you and come away with nothing. That takes practice and anything that takes practice is difficult.

What I gain in speed I lose in opportunity. The most interesting part of this is most of us just want people to listen. However, when it is our turn to listen, we always have something better to do.

When we take the time to hear what people are saying, the present gifts to us in the form of thoughts. These thoughts, when used properly, can turn into inspiration which turns into good work.

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Finding Order

Organization works.

It helps me see clearly, keep my process in order, and frees up more mental space for me to be able to tackle more complex and complicated problems.

Too bad it is the first part of the resistance counterattack on my productivity.

I find myself living in disarray. The problem with living in disarray long enough is it becomes normal – organization and order become odd.

And even with me being aware, it is the easiest part of me to break. No real habit and its the newest part of my life – I want to normalize it.

Process is important.


Sidenote – I was really clumsy this weekend, and I remember Steven Pressfield saying that when he is close to something, he begins to get super clumsy.

There was no shortage of dropped drinks and knocked over cans – dropping of my wallet and keys – my cell phone broke. Tiny cuts on my fingers… Perhaps I am getting somewhere.

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