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Failure Is Better Than Regret

Sometimes failure makes me laugh.

I once made a closet design product. I don’t know much about closets or design. Hell, I don’t even care about them. It seemed like a good idea at the time, so I went with it.

Failure helps you grow and learn how to let go,  both of which are for self-awareness.

Regret does the same thing, but I never laugh at it. Regret always hurts.

Doesn’t matter if it’s because of a bad attitude, not enough “time,”  or “righteous indignation.” If I knew I didn’t give a project my all, my memories would leave me with regret.

“What could have been” sucks way worse than “that was a bad idea.” 

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Pain Is Sharp & Dull

Pain

Pain is interesting to me.

I spent the last few days thinking about pain, and how it affects us.

When pain hits, it usually comes in two flavors – sharp and dull. Both affect you in a different way.

Sharp pain is a quick. Put your hand on a hot stove, that pain is going to hit you in the hand, and its going to sting. Same thing with a bee, stubbing your toe, or getting punched. The pain hits you with a sharp sting.

What follows after is the dullness. That throbbing that just sits there, and sticks around. The burn that happens after putting the hand on the stove, the bruise after the stubbed toe, and the black eye are good representations of dull plain.

What are the effects?

Sharp pain makes you present. It connects the world to you in a, well painful, way. It’s why you instinctively go for a smack to wake someone up(not a great way to wake up a friend).  As much as that person won’t like you, it will wake them up.

Dull pain works as a reminder. After a long enough period, its routine.  Burned your hand, well, every time you get that dull pain, it reminds you of the stove you ought to avoid.

So whats the point?

Not all things that hurt are bad. Pain isn’t the problem if you turn the perspective. What I used to think was a bad thing, something hurting, just was a lesson I needed to learn.

Pain isn’t weakness leaving the body, as is so often said. What it is though, is a great reminder of what is happening in our lives and who we are.  Don’t regret something bad when it happens, look for the lesson,and it you find that the world gives you a ton to learn, it’s just up for you to listen.

 

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Yellow Blogging and the Mistake

It’s very easy to mistake someone for anyone or accuse them of something. On a small personal scale, this isn’t a big deal. A simple excuse me, a look in the offended persons eyes, and a sorry will clear up 99.99% of the issues., as long as it is sincere. Nothing really lingers past that moment of time, and both parties can go about their lives with a simple anecdote.

It gets very tricky when that mistake is on a larger scale. When you can’t apologize, you open the door for things to get confusing emotionally. When you don’t know the other person, you inflict random pain on someone for usually a short-term gain. There is rarely, if ever, an apology and its a lot harder for both sides to move on. There is a scar there, and since we have something on a larger scale, there is more chance for something mutated, changed, and outright wrong.

Some internet blogs are the worst of this. Nothing matters past the story and the juiciest of the potential story. Many sacrifice truth to get views, targeting public figures and using embarrassing picture to frame a narrative that makes people’s blood going. These stories, shared on social media and the effect is further amplified. The story now changed, and discussed by people who do further damage to someone or somethings reputation, some who don’t even know where the original source was. A picture and a damning headline can go a long way on social media.

“Yellow” blogging like yellow journalism, is the attempt to gain people’s attention by using the most shallow and definitely superficial parts of our humanity to dig into those around us. And hopefully, it will meet the same end.

In the meantime, it is up to us to demand more from our sources of information. People are looking for speed… perhaps we can get more if we slowed down.

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Dental Work

I got my teeth pulled yesterday.

It hurts, but I recognize that it had to be done.

A little bit of sacrifice – this weekend for a healthier mouth.

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