Your “priority” is a skill
First, to strengthen our bias to prioritize, we must consider it a skill.
Skills get better the more we use them. The more I shoot a basketball, the better I get at it.
Things like coaching and a particular regiment help control my growth. These options create consistent growth in almost all skills.
The other thing that is consistent is the growth that comes after a challenge.
Back to “priorities.”
The biggest challenges we face with “priority” is prioritizing among the things that we like.
Being able to say no to working out is easy. Deciding to say no to a potential bonus at work or working on your personal project is much harder.
However, that is the difference between a minuscule increase and one that revs up your “priority” skill.
That often is the difference between mediocre and great work.