4 hours isn’t enough. Neither is 5 or 6. Get 7 hours of sleep.
Why?
If you want to maintain influence and mood, you’ll need to sleep. Fatigue increases the chance of erratic behavior. You’ll stop being empathetic and start being moody. You’ll lose focus on the work that matters.
Instead of focusing on being proactive, you’ll fall into the trap of being reactive.
That is the first step in losing influence and impact.
Using it takes away an opportunity to communicate what you work on. It comes from a place of insecurity. “If I say I’m busy, then that will confirm what I am doing to the other person.”
Being “busy” means we lost track of what we are doing. Just by using that word, we generally settle on System 1 (or gut reaction) thinking. Suddenly, the day is gone.
The worst part about the word is the two behaviors feed each other. When you don’t stop to communicate what you are doing and feed into your insecurity, it gets easier to lose track because “busy” often works.
You don’t get points for making things harder on yourself.
Sleeping, like eating, is an important function to how we operate.
The idea that 4 hours of sleep is a badge of honor is like saying you ate 3 eggs per day, and that’s it. After a day or two, your body would throw a hissy fit.
The lack of sleep is doing the same thing to your mind.
I get it: it’s trendy to say how “busy” you are.
It makes us feel important, but it’s shallow. The “busy” stuff generally cuts into our sleep and the “busy” is rarely important.
That’s why no one ever keeps track of your “busy” days.
Did you know your brain isn’t sleeping when you are?
Wait what…?
Essentially, it’s doing this:
Remember this screen growing up, and locked up your PC? Well…this is sleep.
Sleep is work.
Maybe I’ve always known that since I never was a morning person. If I did anything before 9 AM it was special (or a living requirement…I’ll get up to pay my rent, and even that was a challenge).
But, until recently, I never acted on the information. I’ve gotten up with the sun over the last few weeks more often than not by recharging after all that sleep work.
How do I recharge after getting such a “sleep workout?”
Fuel – I keep a bottle of water by my bed and try to drink a bunch as soon as my alarm goes off.
Physical – Quick body weight (push-ups, squats, and sit-ups) exercises every morning after the water.
Mental – This blog, every morning (when it comes late I never quite feel right).
I am full of energy before the day begins. Good morning!
I want to thank everyone for the birthday wishes. I’d like to suggest a challenge – every time you post a happy birthday to me, send a message to an old friend telling them you love them.
Why today? Well, its random :-D.
When we expect the payout we don’t get to cherish it much. Think about your job and how you get paid. A paycheck is normal and we don’t care, but finding five bucks on the ground or having your boss buy you lunch on a whim changes an entire day (or week).
Happy Birthday on April 9th is great, I love what you are doing on June 9 or November 12th is amazing.
This happens because I count the hours in bed as the hours of sleep. The thing is, for an hour before I go to sleep and an hour I wake up, I am not asleep.
My phone has to get the “cycle.”
The cycle is texts, emails, “Boom Beach,” and social media I can fit in before I start to feel tired or there is nothing less. Then I allow myself to put on some music and go to sleep.
But nothing is sticking enough to put down. It isn’t that I have writers block, it’s that the ideas aren’t formulated enough to get put down. If I sat here any longer, I am sure I could come up with another 15 or 20 ideas to put down that interest me in the moment.
I want to try an experiment. I can’t run away from these ideas. I want to force myself to write to these ten ideas over the next ten days. I don’t want my mind to change in midstream.
How do I react when there are expectations, and I can’t maneuver as a writer to write what I want? The experiment begins now.
When I started this, I was very scared of putting myself on video, so I got the courage and put myself in the arena, killing a lot of bad self talk.This gives me the chance to work on my communication skills, start a new medium, and experiment!
Once a week, after I have thought about them, I will give them a day here on the blog.
These aren’t just promotion posts (although they are, please watch and share ) I want to take the time to break them down and try to clarify what I want to communicate and the tactical things I learned through doing.
Sleep is critical to any type of thinking you do. If you want to be at your best, please take the time to integrate sleep in your schedule. The idea of sleeping when your dead will leave you mentally dead instead.
Keeps you working at 100% – When you lay down, it allows your brain to catchup. It’s like the sand in an hour-glass. When you sleep, you flip it, giving you energy.
A necessary expense – If you want to work at 100%, you need it. If you don’t get it, it’s like living in a major city with no transportation.
You don’t get it back – Once it’s gone, it’s gone, and with it go ideas and willpower. There is no such thing as catchup sleep – You need to focus on getting sleep regularly, those marathon sessions during the weekend aren’t doing you any favors.
What I Learned Doing This Video
Pre-production is critical. It makes the work much easier.
Cutting it into 4 pieces works better, instead of trying to get it all in one or two shots.
Moving the camera closer made the video look better.