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Learn Through Habit By Going Slow – Don’t Rush It

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Slow habits create teachable moments

One thing I’ve done on this blog is trying to keep track of my habits. There are a ton of posts on the subject, so much so that I have the entire first sentence linked up ;-).

One of the key principles I learned from writing about habit so much and failing a ton at them is that you do well when you start smaller. Preparing to start small helps you understand how you do and even better, give you teachable moments that help with other things.

Why Small?

Small, simply put, gives you the opportunity to get bored. Boredom, especially individually purposeful boredom, give your mind space to make something better.

The key to making the most of this is to put your full attention and embrace the boredom.

Great example:

When you get a habit of sweeping the floor, start in a tiny spot. Stay there for a few days, and put your full attention in that small place. Every day you do that, your brain is going to come up with a list to make that tiny spot better.  As you expand, you bring that thinking process to the rest of the floor.  It gets addictive.

Swinging for the fences leaves your arms tired

Trying to reach for the sun when starting something isn’t good preparation. Trying to get to Superman in one leap doesn’t happen, nor does it happen in 10 or 100. But, you get a lot closer to that ideal by starting with one push-up a day, and resting on the idea Superman. Trying to go to the gym every day and do a huge superman workout will squeeze you out.

Take advantage of the beauty of change by making a small one, and engaging in that. You might end up surprised at where you end up when you get a year under your belt.

 

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Movement and Motion

Remember that even a small start is a start.

Small steps still create motion.

The important thing, is that you move. All motion matters.

 

 

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Big Changes Lead To Big Nothing

 

New Years Eve is a night surrounded by friends, parties and drinking. It is a day where anything is possible. You are crossing the finish line, and it is time to let loose. New Years Eve soon turns into New Years day. Since New Years marks the start of a calendar year, there is no bigger day for “a fresh start”than New Years Day. People tend to use the day to set out new goals and decide on how they are going to spend the next 365 days improving something in life.  Most of those changes aim to make that person better, and no one is more supportive than the people around them. It is no coincidence this is also known as hangover day, because what better time to think about being better than being slammed by a major headache.

When I was younger, I often thought of personal changes as an introduction to a new chapter(think fiction) in life.Personal change was a huge event, one marked by all the pomp and circumstance that usually comes with a chapter in fiction.  With the new challenge there are new villains. New heroes  come save the day and old ones die out. It would all be very exciting and it would always start with an idea. “Today I am a new person.”

And then the cycle begins. We sign up for the gym, we set the alarm clock, and we buy all the books we could ever read. We are going from a pleasure-seeking dilettante to a studious monk, hardening our resolve, mind and body to a complete person. And it works for one day, and another, and maybe even another. We are starting to learn our favorite machine at the gym, understanding the levity in War and Peace, and enjoying the sunrise at the crack of dawn. Life is good and stays good, until we miss a day. The train for changes stops cold.

The miss, especially for me, comes to represent a stopping point because after dropping those tasks once,I can’t find myself in the mood to start over again. It is as if I dropped a deck of playing cards and to play 52 pickup. I never play 52 pickup, I simply wander to another game. More things start to fall apart, and it becomes easier and easier to let things go. Soon you are in July and you don’t even remember what the resolutions were. It just becomes easier to look forward to December 31st.

It seems like it would be easier just to think smaller.

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