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Authentic Swing

In Authentic Swing, Steven Pressfield gives an idea of the work involved in penning a major novel. In reading this, I feel like I got a closer connection to the work, what needs doing, and how to get about doing it. Two things stood out to me.

1) There is no substitute for showing up. You can’t get out of it with a magic wand. There is no silver bullet. The Calvary is not coming to save you. You have to have the fortitude to show up every day, without question, ready to work. Like the saying goes – “inspiration is for amateurs.” If you want to define yourself as a pro, your first and most important job is showing up and being deliberate.The rest will take care of itself.

This takes a lot of self-discipline. I am getting better but watching it makes me painfully aware the work of the true artist, the true professional. It is ruthless. Everyone else has resigned themselves to react to the world around them, and the true artist responds. Responding takes time, and forces you to think and live differently than everyone else.

2) You cannot copy your way to success. It is the authentic swing, and it cannot and will not be copied. In golf, every professional golfer has a swing that is unique to them. The results may vary, but they have their own swing. If they try to emulate someone elses swing they suffer. In work, good work, this stands also. How you work, what you work on, and the conditions of that work are things you have to work out.  The result will be work that is vastly different from other people, and that becomes your start point. What is good for you may not be good for me.

Stephen King’s pencil, Steven Pressfield’s schedule, and Steve Job’s shirt selection won’t help you get the work that you need to do done.  I am guilty of this myself, I love to stock tools that will “increase productivity”, but what does that matter if I am producing none. Any number multiplied by 0 is always 0 no mater what the other side is.

So, lets get to work :-).

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Fear Games

When fear is a tactic, everyone loses.

The people you manage find themselves locked into a holding pattern. Every step they take they think far to long to make. They walk on eggshells to appease and make sure they don’t incur the shame again.

It works, people start to make fewer mistakes and take less chances. This is when you pay – you have to deal with the stress energy and engagement falling off a cliff. New ideas stop as they have no room to grow.

If you want risk averse, great. Fear works wonders. Just don’t be surprised when you find yourself headed off a cliff in terms of relevancy.

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Work is Work.

Trying to make things that matter is hard.

Spending time at work is easy.

Fear is in the middle.

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Restlessness – It Hurts

I rush things – all the time. Every day is an experiment on how I can push through something faster.

My handwriting is a mess, I never show my work, my documentation of processes leave a lot to be desired, and I end up with a lot of “eureka” moments that either infuriate or amaze people.

It doesn’t leave a lot of stability – which is good for your ego (I wasn’t trying that hard, see, it was just off the top of your head) but bad for getting things done and finishing them or anything that is solid.

Through my recent meditation, among the many things I have discovered, my restlessness pops up a lot. I always seem to be a rush somewhere, even when I have no where to go.

There are a lot of instances where I have messed up the product I want to present, simply by rushing through the draft process, the editing, or even the submission.

For example – I worked hard at a paper in college. I had an A average in the class, which was difficult because I was just starting my freelance writing career, had a full time job at Walmart, and did student security. This paper had a heavy weight , and I spent a lot of time tightening it up.

When it was time to submit – I submitted a version of the paper that was half done, because I didn’t bother to:

a) Organize my version based writing system (RED CARD!!!)
b) Check what I submitted

I ended up getting a D on the paper, and that effected my final grade. I finished with a C in the class for the semester all because I didn’t bother to take some time, slow down, and verify my work.

Rushing things can effect you and cut you off at the knees. The amount of stories that are similar to that one above are legion, but it took meditation to bring it out of me.

My solution – slow down and be more deliberate. If you have any suggestions on how to help me along in that process, feel free to share them with me in the comments.

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Get it in,worked on,out

Develop a method to get the work done, method to get the work, method to get done.

All three are important to making your brain work.

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Compassion

There are no off days for compassion. It is constantly a work in progress.

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Guided Silence

We used to be left alone.

In our warehouses, our farms, and even our businesses, we were left alone to tinker, to work, to rest when we had to.

We may have had less “productivity” but our critical thinking skills and sense of control were there. You could pick yourself up by your own bootstraps, and make something happen.

These days, your attention is pulled in a million directions. Check that e-mail. Pull that IM. Answer that call. Go to Meeting. By the end of the day, your energy is low, you have a plate of to-do’s and it feels like nothing was done.

Because nothing was done.

One of the most important lessons one can learn is the power of guided silence.

That silence gives you a chance to sit with your work, look at an outline, and begin to make something worth while. It is guided by preparation and a goal.

At first it is odd to turn off all those notifications, but once you focus, a world of creativity opens up. From that creativity, you can start doing meaningful work.

You might even start leaving on time too.

Further Reading:

Manage Your Day to Day
99u
Lifehacker

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Little Steps

After a crazy night where PATH train service decided to quit in the middle of rush hour, and added an extra two hours into my commute, I was able to go home.

At the end of it, I was thankful that I actually did get a chance to make it there. Sometimes it takes something being taken away, for you to realize how things work without it. No PATH train means no connection to the city that takes less than an extra 30 – 45 minutes.

In short, it is good to see that all works again, and its interesting how fast people forget things. Tragedy can cripple, but for the smallest of them, they tend to be forgotten about.

That’s what made Mad Men’s episode this Sunday work so well. The episode was wrapped in the death of Martin Luther King, but in a sense, peoples lives really didn’t change. A major moment in country seems to float away, just as fast as it came.

I love Mad Men.


I did a few style upgrades to the blog. I don’t know if I have any readers, but it is a bit more readable. I will be adding a few more bells and whistles in terms of CSS in a little bit, but for the most part, it is there.

To tell the truth I don’t write my posts in the Tumblr word processor – I write them in Draft – (draftin.com).

I love the simplicity that Draft gives me. It allows my words to just be on the page.

I have become a huge fan of minimalism, and because of the blankness here, there is a only room for my thoughts. I can get lost in my writing. In a few minutes, I can blaze through a couple hundred words, without any popups or colors to distract me from the goal.


I have been more angry the last two days. I don’t know what triggered it, but I find myself being defensive over the last couple days, and I don’t like the feeling. It may have been triggered Saturday, when someone I worked with stepped out of their place and said a few things.

It made me think, do I have a problem with authority, or is it just tone. Thinking back, I just don’t mind being pushed, I even don’t mind being pulled, but just do so with the right tone.

My group at work, from the outside looking in, seems pretty good. We all sit together, we work our time, and we win awards. However, inside of it all, there is an ugly underbelly. People are praised privately and shamed publicly, there is a lot of bullying going on. People are clock watching, and looking to catch anyone’s faults just to look above. People undercut.

It is very Lord of the Flies-esque, and it makes my stomach hurt just coming into work.

The truth is, I think my reason for coming in late is I just hate coming into this atmosphere. I hate looking over my shoulder, it is mentally taxing. I can’t thing because there is constant noise. You can’t find a moment to breath, and people occupy the quiet rooms as if they are their own cubicles.

I have a talk with my boss tomorrow about all of this, the fact that I fell marginalized in the group, the ugly underbelly that he isn’t really shown, but I doubt it will go well.

I feel like I will be looking for something new soon. Until then, I will take the time to build my skills and find a situation that fits me. One that I like… Until then, I guess it is time to build career capital as Cal Newport(http://calnewport.com/) says.

3 Things Done
Water Done
Todo Done
Wrapup Done
16/8 Done.

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Keep Trying. Keep Moving.

Keep Trying. Keep Moving.

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Shortcuts are detours.

Shortcuts are detours.

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